When a couple have decided to sex for a baby, sex then may be so much fun. Why? Hold on to that I will respond later. It is usually characterized by sexing without fear. I remember after my first baby, I was not really enjoying the practice unlike before then. It is usually fun doing it without a barrier. Agreed, there are some other ways of doing that even without the barrier, but we opted for sexing in the tiny coat. So because we had agreed to do it with the 'barrier,' sometimes I would do her calculations, so that I can enjoy my thing without the tiny coat. No matter how accurate I may be, I still do that with fears of course she wasn't aware it was so. so when you have decided to sex for your baby, you sex with fun and without fear.
Here I want to share with you, six common types #1: ‘Let’s make a baby’ Sex
When you first begin trying for a baby, this is the most exciting kind of sex. The fact that you are trying for a baby and because sex is still pretty new is enough to excite you both. And the main foreplay you have at this time may be whispering into your Oga’s ear “Shall we make a baby?” Sex on demand is new and exciting at the start, but with time, anxiety creeps in, draining you of the excitement because all your mind is zoned into making a baby.
At this moment, it might be a good idea to take your mind off making a baby, and tell yourself you want to have sex because you love it with your spouse.
#2: The inappropriate location Sex
When your ovulation meets you at the burial ceremony of your grandfather, and you are at your mum’s house. Then you’ll whisper into your husband’s ears “It’s time baby” Then you’ll drag each other into a corner of the room and do it fast, fast because you don’t want to waste that opportunity. Meanwhile, every other person is downstairs mourning the dead old man. “Fast, someone is coming.”
#3: The going through the motions Sex
This kind of sex is not about enjoyment, before now, sex would have been about fun, enjoyment and desire, but now? Sex is about conceiving a baby and it’s strictly business. And that’s the best way to take out the fun of sex, right? So many couples just go through the motion of sex around ovulation time without putting much thought to enjoying it. Their main thought is increasing their chances of conceiving. Yeah, it might not be as hot as you wish but it might bring a baby. So it works.
#4: The “let’s try it” Sex
You logged online and saw articles about styles you should try when trying for a baby and you just can’t help yourself but try it out. Some of the ideas sound good and as you are eager to get pregnant you’ll put them into action as soon as possible.
So once in a while, you experiment with new and interesting sex positions. And although it might not help you get pregnant, it will help liven things up in the bedroom.
#5: The too much pressure sex
Sex is just too much pressure, and it’s stressful. It becomes frustrating, heartbreaking and upsetting when you are trying so much to conceive. And when sex turns to this, it can become not only tiring but impossible as well. At this time, you’ll be feeling like there’s just too much pressure on you to get pregnant. And you might begin to stop loving your body, making sex hard to enjoy.
#6: The really great sex
This is the good part of it, it’s not all bad. Sometimes sex might be inconvenient, awkward and annoying but there are times when you will end up enjoying it. Sometimes it will be good and it will feel like old times again.
If these are the kind of sex you’ve been having, very soon you will have cause to have sex without been pressurized or feel you have to, but have sex for the fun of it, and always remind yourself that you are having sex not just to make babies but also because you love it.
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